Here’s how this works. I have this blog. I also have a Facebook page. It is pretty much public. Pretty much anyone can comment there.
At their own risk.
I usually post a link on there to this blog when I post a new article. Wendy thought it would be a great idea to come over to my Facebook page and confront me. Not here. There. And then she got her feelings hurt and deleted it all.
She can do that on Facebook, which of course, deleted not just her comment but all the stuff written in reply to her. Poof. Gone.
Well, not exactly. . .
Nobody has to agree with me. People here disagree with me quite often. Kaylee and I go at it pretty fiercely from time to time. (Don’t we, Kaylee? )
But I get sort of irritated with people who dive in, make nasty little comments about “God” and inaccurate statements about what I said here on this blog and then try to disappear.
So-called “like” pages, unlike personal pages, do not automatically get placed on the feeds of the people who “like” those pages. That is censorship, and very wrong and bad. To get those posts shared to every single person who has “liked” the page, one has to pay money. That is also very wrong and bad. And to make matters worse, we posted something political and it was removed by Facebook because Facebook hates third parties.
That is not an exact quote, of course, but it’s the gist of what the little rant is about.
The part about Facebook “pages” having to pay to get their posts seen is accurate. Sort of.
Here’s the deal. If you click “like” on a page, you will see little of it in your feed unless you interact with the page. You have to go visit that page, or “like” a post, or even better, comment on a post. If you do that, Facebook says to itself, “Hey, Sally likes that content, so we’ll show her more of it.”
Nicole is very aware of this, and it’s the reason that she posts stuff on BLH intended to encourage comments.
Like this. Nicole does not give a flying fuck what anyone else is doing about the weather. She doesn’t even typically enter into the ensuing conversation. She probably doesn’t even read it. She’s trying to entice people who see this post on their wall to comment, to interact with her page. If they comment, then they will get more of her posts scrolling by. These “What about you?” posts are clickbait.
In addition, there’s another way.
This is a page that I “like.” (I told you all that Dr. Amy is my hero.) In order to make sure that I see everything she posts to her page, I simply checked the “See First” option shown above. The default is “default.”
It’s entirely within my ability to customize my own Facebook page so that I see the stuff I want to see. There are several pages where I have done that.
There are other pages that I have “liked” but really don’t care if I ever see anything from them again. Everyone has these. They are the pages you “liked” because your cousin has a friend who is a plumber and she asked you to “like” his page, so you did. Or you got interested in a story or situation and “liked” a page about it, but after three months, you lost interest.
If I got everything posted from every page I have “liked,” along with all the stuff my Facebook friends post, my feed would scroll faster than I could read it.
Facebook knows this, so they have attempted to create the best solution they can so that my Facebook experience is positive and I keep hanging out there.
They also allow people with “like” pages to purchase exposure. Nicole has availed herself of this opportunity from time to time.
Remember, Facebook is free. How is that possible? How does Facebook remain free and Mark Zuckerberg become a bazillionaire?
If you’re curious about that, here’s a very good graphic that shows the whole process. Basically, Mark Zuckerberg has gotten rich by providing a super-duper advertising environment on steroids. And we all “watch” the ads willingly. Facebook is not a benevolent public service, like a city park. Facebook is a business.
It’s called “free enterprise.” Yes, the whole “free market” stuff that Nicole loves, loves, loves.
There’s an example. [Note: the economy had improved dramatically when Nicole wrote this, and the job market had started recovering nicely, but that’s beside the point.]
She’s all about the free market and deregulation. No rules, by god. Do whatever the hell you like.
She goes even further, though. In her view, she can refuse service to anyone she likes for any reason at all, and they can’t say a single word. [I’d give almost anything to see somebody test out that little hypothesis. She’s wrong, and the courts have made it clear in recent years that she is entirely wrong.]
But no matter.
I say who, I say when, I say how much. It’s my business.
That applies to any business.
Well, Nicole, you colossal idiot, Facebook is a business. They say who, they say when, they say how much, according to you.
But by all means, do get mad at them. Get irate. Get so angry and put out by their “discrimination” that you leave.
I bet the grocery stores love Nicole and her hoard of children coming in and taping shit to the dog food bags.