The First Story: Cathy
Once upon a time (actually, in 1967), there was a three-year-old girl, the daughter of Ukrainian immigrants who had fled to America. Her parents worked for an evil woman named Cleo Smith. Cleo didn’t pay them as she had agreed, so the parents took Cleo to court and won.
Cleo, very irritated by this, followed the mother to the grocery store one day, and abducted the little girl in a green 1966 Cadillac.
The parents, named Ed and Elizabeth Tozar, were so intimidated by the US justice system (in spite of having just sued Cleo and won) that they just said, “Oh, well. . .” and didn’t report the kidnapping of their daughter. That’s why you cannot find a single word about this event in any newspaper.
Cleo, along with her handy-man sidekick Lou Hanby (who, as it turns out, was actually legally married to Cleo), began to systematically abuse the little girl, who they called “Cathy,” both emotionally and sexually. Cleo was rich, and lived on a farm outside Philadelphia. She made her money by running a number of brothels in Philly. She also faithfully attended a local Baptist church for many years and was an avid fan of evangelist Carl McIntire.
As Cathy grew up, Cleo regularly pimped her out to men, almost exclusively to Baptist preachers, including every famous one you’ve ever heard of, and also to seminary students.
One day, when Cathy was about 12, she had to “entertain” Carl McIntire who raped her while Bob Jones, Jr (the then-president of Bob Jones University) watched. Dissatisfied with Cathy’s performance, Bob Jr refused to pay Cleo the madam, so in a rage, Cleo poured a pot full of boiling water over Cathy while she was sleeping. She was in the hospital for “months” with third-degree burns over 60 percent of her body.
After being released (in just four months), she was required to do all the farm work, including milking multiple cows and cleaning stalls and hauling hay and water for the horses, as well as taking care of the now-bed-ridden Lou, all before going to the private Christian school associated with their church.
A year or so later, after the hapless Lou died, the evil Cleo also died.
And Cathy was given to the pastor the church as a foster child and forced to live in the basement. When she was 18, he adopted her formally.
She attended Bob Jones University two separate times, never graduating. The second time, she lived in town, and oddly enough, had great problems paying her rent. She was evicted over and over again. Yet, she had no problem whatever paying her tuition.
At any rate, having been raped more times than any other human being in history, she was raped yet again in a hospital parking lot in Philadelphia as she was leaving work. You can read all about that at the link.
In addition, she was diagnosed with terminal (stage IV) bone cancer more than 10 years ago. She has been undergoing chemotherapy off and on ever since, periodically appearing with scarves on her head because she has no hair, but miraculously regrowing it all in a matter of weeks.
She also has attempted suicide several times, with the most recent one being due to the fact that I publicly stated that I don’t believe her two days after the alleged suicide attempt. You read that correctly.
In addition, she spoke to the entire Pennsylvania legislature, telling her sordid little story, and moved them to tears, and as a result, they passed a bill stiffening penalties for human trafficking in her honor, calling it “Cathy’s Law.” (Only she didn’t.)
Does anyone, anywhere, believe any of that shit?
And the accounts are disjointed. You won’t find the narrative written out like I’ve done above. It’s all jumbled up and takes some effort to sort through and put in chronological order, which is why people don’t see how ridiculous it all is.
And this is what I said about it (in a private message no less), just about the part where she claims that she was raped by Carl McIntire while Bob Jr watched.
And OMG, I was immediately vilified. There has been endless speculation about how in the world I could be so heartless and cruel as to not believe poor St. Catherine of Victimhood. And send her money. (Yes, GoFundMe is a regular part of Cathy’s life. After all, she has to pay for all those cancer treatments.)
The bottom line is this. You always believe sexual abuse victims. You never, ever doubt a victim. They are always telling the truth. And even if they lie, it’s okay, because pathological lying is a symptom of past sexual abuse, therefore they are telling the truth. (Don’t worry. It doesn’t make any sense. I know.)
So, when the Naugler supporters found the Romancing site, which they absolutely do not understand, they grabbed a bit of it and began to chime in with the group over there.
Actually, that’s not true. These folks can’t read, or don’t take the time to read enough to know what they are talking about, but no matter.
I have a cult following. Who knew? Oh, and I own and/or administer or edit the following Facebook pages:
My son’s page. He can’t do it himself for obvious reasons.
My son’s other page. (Complicated reasons why there are two.)
There is a Facebook page about the documentary film about Nathan, but I do not admin or own that (either the page or the film).
A close friend’s memorial page (he died several years ago and was Nathan’s closest friend) I don’t own it but am an admin.
A group called “Errancy” which is about errors in the Bible.
And that’s it. I have no fake identities. I have never had a fake identity.
LOL Of course. A “victim blamer.”
And isn’t that lovely? I’m a whore. May I rot in hell, because I think Cathy Harris is a liar.
I am not Suzanne.
Nicole, I have never once threatened you. However, your husband has threatened me with bodily harm and you knew he did it. And I am not harassing you. I am making public commentary on your public commentary. Please try to figure this out.
So, I’m a “nasty woman” who “harasses another woman about her sexual abuse and rape.” I’m awful and horrible because I do not believe Cathy Harris and because I decided to go after her publicly. She has spent years doxxing people and threatening them and doing all the sorts of things that people do to other people online to intimidate them. But she’s a self-proclaimed sexual abuse victim and therefore I am horrible to doubt her.
You cannot doubt a person who claims to have been sexually abused. If you do, you have “clear mental issues.” That’s what Nicole says.
The Second Story: Alex
That’s from one of Nicole’s blogs. It’s long. Here’s the short version:
Joe had a wee affair and a child named Alex was the result. Alex’s mother is unfit or something, so Joe and Nicole took the kid. Nicole was having miscarriages. Bouncing around from state to state.
Fast forward a bit and Nicole starts having the Blessed Little Family, in Texas.
They sent Alex to visit his mother in New Hampshire, and the evil relatives arranged for Joe to be stripped of his parental rights. This was totally not anything to do with Joe who was pure and a fabulous parent, but all due to evil relatives and the evil state.
And none of this would have happened if there had only been GoFundMe.
Joe and Nicole gave up. Alex grew up.
But Joe and Nicole totally wanted to reestablish a relationship with Alex. You know, for their children. For Alex’s siblings. And then follows a very cryptic weird statement about how she’d been “warning” the state of New Hampshire for years, and it’s all on their head. Note that.
And then a couple of poor us paragraphs.
But of course, then came the Blessed Little State Kidnapping, and the Blessed Little Court Hearing, and Alex appeared to testify that his father abused him when he was a child.
After the hearing, Brow said: ‘I got all the beatings. I got most of the mental abuse.
‘There was a lot of sexual abuse towards me. We had a very dysfunctional relationship.’
In the end, the court saw fit to ignore Alex’s testimony and give the Naugler children back to their parents.
Now wait a second.
Alex, my 19-year-old estranged son, testified in today’s hearing. We are both heartbroken with the way Alex’s upbringing away from us and his strained relationship with his mother have affected him.
That’s interesting. In other words, Alex isn’t being truthful and the reason is that he was raised badly because Joe didn’t raise him.
But. But. But.
I thought that if you don’t believe a sexual abuse/rape victim, you’re a “nasty” person and have “clear mental issues.”
Oh, I see. It was “hitting.” That was the only kind of abuse that Joe was accused of. “Hitting.”
And people are fooled by it all. Because we’re all stupid, and have disregarded anything except what Alex has said.
And Alex is clearly lying.
But here’s a bit from the “Story of Alex” in Nicole’s words, dated January 2013:
To have a family who loves you so much and to not know they even exist or that they care so much about you . . . I hope he is able to find it in his heart to contact us. I wish he knew how much we love and miss him.
There’s a nice tear-jerking statement for you.
He has 9 siblings here who know about him. Two that remember him. Its hardest on Jacob.. He was 3 when Alex was taken. For years I protected those involved. He knows the truth of it all. He is also patient. He knows he will see Alex again someday.
And this one. She just wants her kids to know their half-brother.
And here we have what her cryptic bullshit remark was about. She’s accusing Alex of sexually abusing his cousin. She doesn’t say how they know this. They haven’t spoken with him in 9 years, she says. Notice the date: 2010. Three years before the sorrowful “we just want our kids to know him” crap.
And Nicole contacted the state because she was all worried about Alex.
Well, actually she contacted the state because they were coming after Joe for child support.
My thought was if this guy cant(sic) hold a job flipping burgers how the heck can he handle a teenager with emotional issues.
But they hadn’t spoken with Alex for nine years.
Well, in the wake of all this, the Naugler surrogates and fakes began beating the drums.
The screen shot “off his page” is this:
Note the date. Alex posted that comment on May 3. The children hadn’t been taken yet. He hadn’t spoken with Joe or Nicole in 15 years, if I’m counting right.
And he makes an offhand comment about “out of sight, out of mind” and getting “slightly noticed.” No context is given. Nothing. Do you know how many teenagers feel just like that?
And that is grabbed as “proof” that Alex just made up the whole sexual abuse story about Joe for attention because he wanted to be on television.
And there he is telling his friends where they can see him on TV. So obviously, he’s lying for attention.
First, this page is almost certainly Nicole. And just read what is said.
Of course, Alex is just angry because he was robbed of having the wonderful childhood his half-siblings have had. He, too, could have shit in a bucket and lived in the Blessed Little Shitshack and slept on a large piece of plywood in the dead of winter.
And it’s all Joe’s mother’s fault.
Well, actually, Lawauna, you did. The claims are “bogus.” Alex made the claims. Ergo, Alex is lying.
There is more of this, but that’s enough, I think, to make the point.
Alex says Joe sexually abused him. Joe says that’s not true. Nicole says it’s not true.
And all the Naugler supporters clamor that it’s not true.
Either Alex is lying, or Alex is simply deceived and was told stuff happened to him that didn’t happen to him, but it’s not true and they do not believe it.
Why is it okay for Joe and Nicole and their supporters to vilify Alex publicly and call him a liar and an attention-seeker and it’s horrible and awful for me to say that I do not believe Cathy Harris? Alex’s story is plausible. Cathy’s is clearly and demonstrably not.
Why am I a “nasty” woman with “clear mental issues” but Nicole is innocent and has such a loving heart?
Did Joe sexually abuse Alex? Did Joe and Nicole physically abuse Alex (as in “hitting”)?
I have no idea.
I will tell you this, though. Alex’s story is not an uncommon one. It’s not something ridiculous like the Cathy Harris “I was kidnapped and raped by every preacher in America” story.
In fact, the child who is most at risk of abuse (physical, emotional, sexual) and death is the step-child. Throughout human history, this has been the case. Step-children are often abandoned, neglected, rejected, and sometimes murdered by their step-parent.
The risk is heightened when other children are born to the couple, because those children take priority. They carry the genes of both parents. The step-child does not.
But I repeat: I have no idea who is telling the truth about all this. I sort of doubt the “Alex molested his cousin” story, frankly. The rest is just anybody’s guess. And I suspect that is why the court did nothing about it. There’s no way to prove or disprove it.
But Nicole, you live in a glass garden shed. You really need to quit throwing stones.